Andy and Donna share a warm lunch filled with laughter, stories, and honest conversation — but no romantic spark
In a lively restaurant, Andy, wearing a bright pink polo and pale blue jeans, met Donna, dressed casually yet stylishly in a green patterned jacket and navy joggers. Both in their 60s, they came hoping for good company and conversation, and although romance wasn’t on the cards, the date proved rich with insight and warmth.
Andy on Donna: A Woman of Confidence and Stories
What were you hoping for?
Andy entered the date with an open mind, aiming simply for a charming lunch companion, great conversation, good food, and plenty of laughter. “I certainly got all of that,” he says with a smile.
First impressions:
He describes Donna as elegant, poised, and confident — someone completely at ease with who she is and where she is in life.
What did you talk about?
The conversation ranged widely, from family pride in their children and grandchildren to Donna’s fascinating travels in Africa. They shared thoughts on their past relationships, political views, and the difficult topic of racial profiling. Andy playfully nagged Donna to stop just talking about writing and actually start writing her life story — a book he believed would be a compelling read.
Most awkward moment:
Andy’s biggest hiccup was getting on the wrong train before the date — though he recovered quickly and waited for Donna’s arrival.
Good table manners?
Their engaging conversation meant manners didn’t stand out, though Andy didn’t notice any issues.
Best thing about Donna:
“She’s confident, knows what she wants from life, funny, warm, intelligent, and attractive inside and out.”
Would you introduce Donna to your friends?
“Absolutely.”
Q&A With Andy
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Describe Donna in three words: Confident, bright, content.
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What do you think Donna made of you? “I have no idea. I hope I was good company and listened attentively. I don’t remember licking my knife or blowing my nose on my napkin.”
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Did you go on somewhere? No, they left the restaurant separately after Andy offered to walk her to the bus stop, but Donna declined.
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And … did you kiss? A polite two-cheek kiss on meeting, and a brief hug at parting.
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If you could change one thing about the date: Nothing — Donna was a lovely companion.
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Marks out of 10: 8.5 (If there had been a romantic spark, it would have been higher.)
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Would you meet again? Yes, they exchanged numbers, and Andy looks forward to sharing another meal or drink — and maybe persuading Donna to finally write her story.
Donna on Andy: Warm, Grounded, but Missing the Spark
What were you hoping for?
Donna wanted to meet someone family-friendly — honest, transparent, adventurous, kind, supportive, creative, and financially stable.
First impressions:
She found Andy confident and elegant, a man comfortable in his own skin.
What did you talk about?
Their discussion flowed easily from life stories and family to work, friendships, and travel. Both being highly creative and film enthusiasts, the conversation sparked inspiration — especially when Andy, a published writer, encouraged Donna in her hopes to write her first novel.
Most awkward moment:
Though Andy seemed at ease, Donna didn’t feel any chemistry or connection.
Good table manners?
Great, she said. They both appreciated well-presented, flavourful food — be it Spanish or Caribbean. Andy abstained from alcohol, while Donna enjoyed a gin and tonic.
Best thing about Andy:
“He was open, honest, respectful, and we had a good laugh.”
Would you introduce Andy to your friends?
“No.”
Q&A With Donna
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Describe Andy in three words: Grounded, humorous, conversational.
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What do you think Andy made of you? She believes he enjoyed her company and appreciated her willingness to meet. They exchanged numbers with polite follow-ups.
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Did you go on somewhere? No, they stayed at the restaurant and talked at length.
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Did you kiss? A friendly peck on the cheek at farewell.
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If you could change one thing about the evening: “Though we shared laughs and stories, I didn’t feel attracted to Andy. I usually date Black men but remain open to love transcending all barriers.”
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Marks out of 10: 6
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Would you meet again? Yes, but as friends.
Summary: A Meeting of Minds, Not Hearts
Andy and Donna’s blind date blossomed into a genuine exchange filled with humor, warmth, and shared stories — though without romantic chemistry. Andy admired Donna’s confidence and encouraged her writing ambitions, while Donna appreciated Andy’s openness and humor, even if sparks didn’t fly. Both left with mutual respect and the possibility of a friendship, proving that sometimes the best dates are those that open doors to connection in unexpected ways.
