Angelica, 74, an assessment manager, meets Peter, 80, a retired journalist — a warm connection, plenty of laughter, but differing tastes in drink
Angelica arrived at the restaurant early, nervously scanning the room for her blind date. Dressed in a soft peach jumper layered over a rust polo neck and leggings, paired with brown ankle boots, she was relieved when the waitress finally led her to Peter’s table. Peter, an 80-year-old retired journalist, was already seated, dressed smartly in a grey suit jacket over a pale blue striped shirt and white T-shirt. What followed was an afternoon of lively conversation, gentle humor, and a shared sense of ease.
Angelica on Peter: A Patient Listener with Wit and Warmth
What were you hoping for?
Angelica hoped for a great conversation peppered with mutual understanding and connection.
First impressions:
After some initial nerves, she was instantly put at ease by Peter’s personable demeanor.
What did you talk about?
Their discussion covered many topics — previous careers, family life, hobbies, and food. They even compared their tech skills, laughing over small missteps. So engrossed were they that the restaurant politely reminded them it was closing time.
Most awkward moment:
Peter teased that he had a profound statement to make but then couldn’t quite remember what it was about — a lighthearted moment that broke any tension.
Good table manners?
Definitely — polite and considerate throughout.
Best thing about Peter:
His easy-going nature and attentive listening stood out.
Would you introduce Peter to your friends?
“Without hesitation.”
Q&A With Angelica
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Describe Peter in three words: Polite, witty, honest.
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What do you think Peter made of you? “He may have thought I talked too much.”
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Did you go on somewhere? They walked arm in arm to the underground station and boarded the same train; Peter got off a stop before Angelica.
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And … did you kiss? A gentle goodbye kiss.
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If you could change one thing about the date: “We could have talked for hours longer. Peter even mentioned he had an open return ticket to Norwich.”
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Marks out of 10: Full marks.
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Would you meet again? They exchanged phone numbers and emails to keep in touch.
Peter on Angelica: A Lively Conversationalist with a Hearty Laugh
What were you hoping for?
Peter hoped to find someone to share new experiences with, perhaps a late-life loving relationship.
First impressions:
He was pleasantly surprised to find Angelica exactly as he had hoped — a petite, smartly dressed woman with a warm smile and neatly cropped white hair.
What did you talk about?
Topics included education (Angelica had been a teacher and still worked in further education), the loss of past partners (Angelica’s being an adventurous Brazilian man), travel, and the arts.
Most awkward moment:
Peter humorously recalls getting his foot caught between the table leg and the seat as Angelica arrived, nearly toppling but recovering with a gentlemanly stance.
Good table manners?
Excellent throughout.
Best thing about Angelica:
Her hearty laugh, lively humor, and articulate stories about her fascinating life.
Would you introduce Angelica to your friends?
Yes, though he noted she might not share interests with his snooker partner.
Q&A With Peter
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Describe Angelica in three words: Gregarious, verbal, confident.
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What do you think Angelica made of you? “Hopefully that I was interested, a good listener, and didn’t make a complete idiot of myself. We laughed a lot, so maybe that’s a good sign.”
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Did you go on somewhere? They only walked to the underground station together.
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And … did you kiss? No, but they shared a “wobbly train hug” when Peter got off the train, topped with an awkward kiss on Angelica’s forehead.
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If you could change one thing about the date: “I’d have felt more comfortable if Angelica had shared my enthusiasm for drinking booze. She abstained, while I guiltily enjoyed half a bottle of fine white Burgundy.”
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Marks out of 10: A steady 9.
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Would you meet again? Possibly. “It depends on how many marks I get out of 10!”
Summary: A Delightful Date with Room for a Toast
Angelica and Peter’s blind date was marked by sparkling conversation, mutual respect, and plenty of laughs. Although their tastes in alcohol didn’t quite match — Angelica abstaining while Peter enjoyed his wine — the warmth between them was undeniable. With full marks from Angelica and a confident nine from Peter, their shared connection promises the potential for more enjoyable conversations, whether over drinks or simply good company.
