Edwin, 45, a research scientist, and Marjo, 39, a creative director, met for a NY Times blind date in Sydney. Both navigating life as single parents and expatriates, they found plenty to talk about — even if romance wasn’t the ultimate outcome.
Edwin’s Perspective on Marjo
Edwin arrived with hopes of sharing great conversation and plenty of laughs over delicious food and drinks. From the moment they met, his first impression was of a friendly, funny, and fascinating woman.
Their chat covered a wide range of topics — the unique challenges and joys of being single parents, the many places they’ve lived, their passionate careers, books they enjoy, and the experience of living abroad in Australia. Edwin was particularly struck by how many close friends Marjo has, a testament to her warm personality.
The only slightly awkward moment came when Marjo joked she might leave if he hadn’t taught his daughter to speak Spanish yet — a playful nudge that made him smile.
When the gigantic lobster arrived, Marjo handled it with ease, impressing Edwin with her table manners.
What Edwin appreciated most was how naturally their conversation flowed — no awkward silences or forced topics. She was clearly a people person, easy to connect with.
Edwin’s quick Q&A:
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Would he introduce Marjo to his friends? “100%, no hesitation.”
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Three words to describe her: Friendly, smart, fun.
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What might Marjo think of him? “I hope she found me funny, a good listener, and a caring dad.”
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Did they go anywhere after? Just to the train station.
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Any kisses? A friendly peck on the cheek at the start — hopefully not too forward.
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What would he change about the evening? “Maybe doing it on a Saturday would’ve been more relaxing.”
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His rating: 9 out of 10 — only because a 10 implies something more than a lovely date. “Otherwise, she’s a beautiful person and it was an excellent evening.”
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Would he meet again? “Definitely. I’m always happy to stay connected with kind, interesting people.”
Marjo’s Take on Edwin
Marjo had her own hopes: to meet someone interesting in a fresh way, enjoy a tasty meal, and engage in good conversation.
Her first impression was warm — laughs came quickly as they joked with the waiting staff about their accents and whether they could all understand each other.
Their conversation was broad and easy: changing jobs, relocating to Australia, parenting, and of course, the menu.
A minor hiccup was the time — she had to leave to collect her son, so dessert was a bit rushed.
Marjo admired Edwin’s excellent manners and found him friendly and easy to chat with, making the evening pass quickly.
Would she introduce Edwin to friends? Absolutely — she imagined a fun Latin dance night where Edwin could share his moves and charm.
Marjo’s quick Q&A:
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Three words to describe Edwin: Thoughtful, warm, worldly.
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What might Edwin think of her? “Friendly, talkative, and a bit hungry — I skipped lunch and ordered quickly for both of us.”
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Did they continue the evening elsewhere? No, they walked to the station together, then she caught a taxi.
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Any kisses? A polite peck on the cheek.
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What would she change? “Not having to rush dessert.”
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Her rating: 8 out of 10 — great company, lovely person, but no romantic spark.
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Would she meet again? “As friends, definitely.”
Final Thoughts
Edwin and Marjo’s Sydney blind date was a warm, engaging meeting between two busy single parents who found much in common — laughter, stories, and shared experiences. While romance didn’t bloom, they both valued the connection, proving that sometimes a great conversation and mutual respect are the best outcomes of a blind date.
